(Closed) One of my BMs is venting about my wedding on Facebook!!

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

oh no! ((((( HUGS )))))) so sorry to hear that…thats not cool. why would she do such a thing?

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

Ugh. SO sorry! 🙁

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

That’s not cool! Do you think you should talk to her about it so you can resolve any issues she’s having? Maybe she’ll remove her fb post if she knows it bothers you.

Post # 6
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

wow! what exactly did she say?

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - Ceremony - First United Methodist Church; Reception - My parents' house!

Are you serious? I’m sorry, but that’s just dumb of her to do. 🙁

Post # 9
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

Are you sure it wasn’t just a comment like “OMG, I can’t beleive how expensive rooms are for my freinds wedding?” Maybe she didn’t realize how expensive it would be and she is just in shock. I wouldn’t fault her for trying to find something less expensive if it fits more with her budget. If I was a guest at your wedding, I would not be offended by her comment, if that is what it was. I would either stay in the block of rooms you have reserver, or if it wasn’t in my budget either, I would find a less expensive option. She hasn’t told you she won’t be their because of the expense. It sounds to me like she is just voicing her opinion on reality.

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

 ooo, that would irk me!!! Yell

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010 - Heron Hill Winery

boo on her…but she is likely not complaining about your wedding intentionally….the cost of anything can be easily complained about…but I suppose it is in bad taste to do so on FB for all guests to see.

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Sorry  that you have to deal with this. I don’t think that her complaining will deter any guests. I think that it makes her look bad. Plus, she may not be complaining beccause you picked an “expensive room” (I’m not suggesting that it is expensive but that may be how she feels), it may be that she can’t afford it. I would talk to her about it and see what she says.

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

It is NOT the smartest thing anyone has ever done, but it probably wasn’t intended to hurt you. It seems to just inconsiderate. I would let this one slide. However, if you see something else (on FB, in person, etc.), say something sooner rather than later.

Post # 14
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

eh… i think you’re maybe overreacting a bit. I wouldn’t post that because I wouldn’t want my friend to feel badly, but it doesn’t seem like she’s mad at you or really complaining. Probably just frustrated by the cost of hotels. I’m sure she’s still happy to be a bridesmaid, just a bit overwhelmed by how much its costing her.

Post # 15
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

“Trying to find a hotel in Sonoma for a wedding that isn’t $200 a night. Ugh!” 

 if this is all she said then i think youre over reacting a bit.   cheers

Post # 16
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

If that’s all she said, I would let it slide. I don’t think it was passive aggressive… just an economic fact that money is tight right now. Sonoma is a beautiful place to have your wedding, but also expensive!

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