Post # 1
Having a really bad waiting day today…
Not really sure what’s triggered it either but I feel really unsure of myself and unconfident. Things my SO has said in the past keep circling round and round in my head like ‘I’m not ready’ and ‘it’s too big a step’. What if he’s never ready?
I’m wobbling and the prospect of waiting even another year seems impossible. Valentines day is coming and I’m absolutley dreading the inevitable stream of engagements 🙁
Waiting is an emotional rollercoaster!
Post # 3
🙁 Sorry you are having a bad day. I know it is hard, but try to focus on why you love your SO. And come Valentine-s Day, stay the hell away from Twitter and Facebook. Maybe even Wedding Bee if you are having a hard time right now. Maybe after Valentine’s Day you could talk to SO again and let him know you are serious about moving forward with your relationship.
Post # 4
@angelinaUK: aww I’m so sorry you’re having a bad waiting day. Hugs to you, I know how rough it can be sometimes. I definitely go through my roller coaster of emotions. Always up and down. It’s definitely no fun to wait, why don’t the guys feel like his ever?! I agree with PP, focus on how much you love your SO and how happy you are (except on bad waiting days!) Think of what a great love you have that so many others never find. Oh and Valentines day… I’m right there with you. I cannot absolutely see anymore engagements! My SO works late on Thursdays so he won’t even be home Til 830ish bah. Just remember we are always here for you! Virtual hugs and shoulders to lean on!
Post # 5
Thanks girls 🙂 I’ll get through it, I’m just having a rough day xxxxx
Post # 6
ugh, I’m right there with you. I just recently found out my SO returned the engagement setting he purchased in November. Let me tell you….THAT was a bad day. Stick with the bee’s we’ll get you through it!
Post # 7
@Lily_of_the_valley I’m so sorry, that must be so frustrating! Hopefully this was just a blip in the timeline and there’s a greater plan/purpose! In the meantime, we’re all here for you, too.