(Closed) One of those waiting days

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 17
Member
556 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I know the feeling. In fact, I had an absolute meltdown about a week ago because his mom just got engaged to her boyfriend of three years. Seeing my friends get engaged hasn’t really been a huge bother to me, though it stings when they’ve been with their guys for 1.5 – 2 years and I have been with mine for 5. However, when his mom got engaged, I snapped. They’ve just (days ago!) celebrated their three year anniversary, and we even discussed how it would be weird if they did it before us. Perhaps I overreacted, but the hurt was unbearable. Even now, I just feel so crushed. I keep screaming “it’s not fair!” in my head. 

You’re allowed to feel this way. When you love someone, you’re ready to take the next step in your life, and they are on board…the waiting just seems so futile, like such a useless waste of time. You’re not alone. If it really is starting to bother you, I would talk with him about it. 

Post # 20
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2522 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

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@lilymarie23:  Well, you shouldn’t feel bad about wanting to get married. I’m sorry you have been crying so much lately. 🙁 When I was reading your original post and then your update, I wanted to shake your guy and say, “DO IT ALREADY!!!” but guys can be douche-hats sometimes.

I hope it’s soon. *hugs*

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