(Closed) One overweight BM. I need your help…

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Which Spring color suits various size/plus size BM?
    Fierce Rouge : (40 votes)
    87 %
    Subtle Champagne : (6 votes)
    13 %
  • Post # 3
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    … I thought the bride was in charge of the dresses.. and the color of them. Did I miss something?!

    If you wanna keep with a toned down color, you could use bright colored accessories, or a sash around the waist, ot statement jewelry.. something like that!

    Post # 4
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Def ask the bride…but i like the idea of adding a pop of color in the accessories! whatever the BMs feel comfortable and “fierce” in Laughing

    Post # 5
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch

    I don’t know if I’d tone down the color if she looks great in the dress… are you afraid she won’t want any attention drawn to her? If that were the case, she probably wouldn’t have agreed to be a bridesmaid. 🙂 I’d ask the bride to be the decisive vote.

    Post # 6
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I think that skin tone might play a factor in selecting the color too? The rouge is probably better for more skin tones.

    Post # 7
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    Worker bee

    that dress seems really forgiving – I don’t think the color will matter! Go with what the bride wanks 🙂

    Post # 8
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2011 - Vintage Villas

    I think either color would look great! I’d ask the bride to make the final decision!

    Post # 9
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 2008

    Go with the color! It will make everyone look beautiful.  champagne is not the most univerisally flattering color and could be too close in color to the bride’s dress.  if she is a proud and confident woman she will ROCK the pink dress.

    Post # 10
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    I’m confused, why do you think she wouldn’t like the bright color?    Why can’t you just ask everyone what colors they like?

    Post # 11
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2011

    The champagne color could be very difficult to wear for most skin tones.  Also many voluptuous women don’t like wearing light colors.  I’d definitely go with the pink or another bright or dark color.

    Post # 12
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2008

    Just because your plus size doesn’t mean you can’t wear color.

    But I doubt that dress is offered in plus sizes.  Regular sizes and plus sizes are different.  A regular size 16 has different measurements than a women’s/plus 16.

    If the other Bridesmaid or Best Man is actually plus size as you say, you will need to find a dress line that includes plus sizes.

    Post # 13
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 2010

    coming from a size 16, i’d just ask which color she prefers.  why do you think she’d feel insecure with a bold pop of color?  seriously i love all colors… champagne, yellow, white, whatever.,,.. i don’t care for the dress because my boobs are huge and would pop out of the top like muffins… but i had that problem no matter my size.

    Post # 14
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I’m a plus-sized gal myself and I say GO WITH THE COLOR!! Because the rouge is darker it actally may be more flattering. Also, if she’s insecure about it she can always keep the hair and makeup a little more tame, get a cute bolero, etc.

    Post # 15
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    Honey bee

    I’m confused by your question. Why do you think color is relevant in how a dress looks on a plus sized woman? Has the girl actually tried on the dress and feels comfortable in it? I don’t know anyone who is plus size who would be comfortable at all in that particular style. The color is completely dependent on the individual’s skin tone and what looks most flattering. That’s why most people go with black or neutrals since it’s impossible to find a single color that is flattering on both cool and warm toned people. All that said, get her into a store to try on the dress and hold a fabric swatch up to her before you make any kind of decision.

    Post # 16
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    Bumble Beekeeper

    Go for the color!

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