(Closed) One reason I wanted to meet someone..

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

she got really ignorant…so I got ignorant back at her

I don’t understand what you mean by this.  Do you mean a different word than ignorant?  I can’t figure it out.

That said, you get drama even if you haven’t know someone all your life.  If you took out the fact that you knew each other for 14 years and instead made it 4, I don’t see how you’d feel any different.

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Rude, yes that makes sense now.

Yes, you can be selective about what they know, but there will still be plenty of stuff to share even on a shorter acquantance, and history you may not like.  Go check out some of the other posts on this board – the ex gf asked to be a Bridesmaid or Best Man really comes to mind at this point.  The wife-to-be has no real history with the ex gf, but the ex gf has regardless really managed to create quite a mess despite this.  This is not to say it’s right what people say and do, I’m just suggesting you don’t focus on the history aspect between you & your husband as the problem, because it’s really irrelevant.  Besides, it’s really no fun to live set apart from folks without lifelong friends that know you well!  I was a military brat, grew up all of the place, and would have loved to have friends from elementary school but I lost track of all of them.

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