(Closed) One thank you card for shower and wedding

posted 9 years ago in Gifts and Registries
Post # 3
484 posts
Helper bee

Send seperate!! It’s a seperate gift so therefore warrants a seperate thank you.

Post # 4
3332 posts
Sugar bee

With three weeks in between, I would send two different thank you cards.  If they were in the same week, you might be able to get away with it.  The shower my Mother-In-Law threw for me was 3 weeks before our wedding and I did a separate set of cards, mostly because I knew it would be a few weeks after the wedding before we got the TYs out for that.  I didn’t want people to have to wait a couple of months for their shower TYs.

Post # 5
44 posts
  • Wedding: October 2008

I know it’s more work (trust me!), but I would send 2 separate ones…you could do more playful cards for the shower gift, and more formal to match your invitation suite for the wedding thank yous.

Post # 6
948 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2018 - Coyaba Resort, Montego Bay

Yep, separate

Post # 7
14186 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I sent separate ones. I thanked the couple for the wedding gift and the woman for the shower gift.

That’s what mom said to do =]

Post # 8
1732 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010


Post # 9
1064 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Yes I agree, Seperate.. even though it’s a pain just suck it up people remember that kind of stuff.

Post # 10
247 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2009

I agree with everyone else – seperate.  I also had my shower 3 weeks before my wedding and I sent out seperate thank you cards.

Post # 11
2641 posts
Sugar bee

Agreed.  two seperate events.  Two seperate gifts.  Two seperate thank yous. 

Post # 12
2022 posts
Buzzing bee


Post # 13
2681 posts
Sugar bee

I vote seperate.  Each gift deserves its own thank you card.

Post # 14
1246 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

Another vote for separate, with an addendum that some people will only give for the shower and not for the wedding, so that’s another reason to go ahead and get them out of the way.

Post # 15
159 posts
Blushing bee

Separate.  get some help from your BMs if need be, but get them out as soon as you can.  

Post # 16
60 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

definitely separate!

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