(Closed) One thank you card for shower and wedding

posted 13 years ago in Gifts and Registries
Post # 3
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Helper bee

Send seperate!! It’s a seperate gift so therefore warrants a seperate thank you.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee

With three weeks in between, I would send two different thank you cards.  If they were in the same week, you might be able to get away with it.  The shower my Mother-In-Law threw for me was 3 weeks before our wedding and I did a separate set of cards, mostly because I knew it would be a few weeks after the wedding before we got the TYs out for that.  I didn’t want people to have to wait a couple of months for their shower TYs.

Post # 5
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2008

I know it’s more work (trust me!), but I would send 2 separate ones…you could do more playful cards for the shower gift, and more formal to match your invitation suite for the wedding thank yous.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2022 - Coyaba Resort, Montego Bay

Yep, separate

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I sent separate ones. I thanked the couple for the wedding gift and the woman for the shower gift.

That’s what mom said to do =]

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Seperate! 

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Yes I agree, Seperate.. even though it’s a pain just suck it up people remember that kind of stuff.

Post # 10
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2009

I agree with everyone else – seperate.  I also had my shower 3 weeks before my wedding and I sent out seperate thank you cards.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee

Agreed.  two seperate events.  Two seperate gifts.  Two seperate thank yous. 

Post # 12
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Bumble bee

separate!

Post # 13
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Bumble bee

I vote seperate.  Each gift deserves its own thank you card.

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

Another vote for separate, with an addendum that some people will only give for the shower and not for the wedding, so that’s another reason to go ahead and get them out of the way.

Post # 15
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Worker bee

Separate.  get some help from your BMs if need be, but get them out as soon as you can.  

Post # 16
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2010

definitely separate!

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