(Closed) One week out and I’m in an amazingly foul mood…

posted 7 years ago in October 2011
Post # 3
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609 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2009

oh i was the same way. i pretty much hated everyone and anyone who asked me anything got their heads ripped off. i thought i had done pretty well not being too stressed out but i lost it the week before. stuff that i had told people to do weeks before decided 3 days before the wedding was the appropiate time to start. so they were stressed and i was stressed. but the day before just take a deep breath and have a nice rehersal dinner and the day of everything will be fine. and when someone asks you something delegate it out to a Maid/Matron of Honor or Bridesmaid or Best Man. smile and say….ask xyz. helps a lot!

good luck and it will be amazing!

Post # 5
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350 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@UpstateCait:  I’m just annoyed and tired and sick of being pulled in a million f’ing directions. As much as I’m thrilled to get married and see all of my HARD work come together, I’m totally ready for this wedding to be over so I can have my sanity back.

Anyone else in the same boat


OMG YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  This is totally me right now!

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1993

Lol, this was me the week before – Mother-In-Law decided she didn’t like the song we picked for our ceremony, she was still slightly pissy that we wanted to have a low-key rehearsal dinner at their house vs. a restaurant, my mom was more concerned about perfecting my sister’s tan lines (who was not involved in the wedding), and Darling Husband decided he wasn’t sure he liked the programs I had just spent a week designing – after I had them printed.

The day I left here to go home (wedding was in my home state) I stopped on the other side of town to pick up the programs and head home – my car wouldn’t start. I was 45 min from Darling Husband (who was at work) and had to pick up my dress 2 hours away. Had to walk 3 blocks to a store to get a toothbrush, water, and baking soda to clean off my battery. Eventually had to get a jump anyway. Skipped the rest of my errands to drive straight to the car place at home (2 hours away) got it there, parked it, shut it off – realized the windows were down and tried to start it to put them up – wouldn’t start.

The day before I’m literally running from appt to appt and I’m getting texts and calls – what time is rehearsal, where’s the wedding, when’s the wedding? MotherF*****! Did you not read the THREE emails I sent?? Did you not read the invite? DO NOT CALL ME THE DAY BEFORE THE WEDDING ASKING STUPID QUESTIONS!

 

So in short, yes, I have been where you are – and you do survive!

Post # 7
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471 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@UpstateCait: I have been like that too! I’ve stopped caring completely, and am pretty damn bitchy!! my Fiance got irritated with me like 3 days ago and we just spoke to each other for the first time since then earlier today… lol I didn’t really mind the silence for a little while! 

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Yup!!! Right there with ya girl. 

I’m hoping I can get a lot accomplished this week without anyone getting in my way (i took it off of work) otherwise, just let the day come, and be fun and then be OVER.

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

*raises hand*

Post # 10
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@UpstateCait: I was thinking about you and your fast approaching wedding. I haven’t seen you much on the boards but I totally understand why.

Your wedding will be beautiful. You have done so many great projects.

Just take lots of deep breaths this week and think ” This too shall pass”.

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@UpstateCait:I was there, too. That last week is tough. But in a week– you will be married and it will be worth it!

Post # 13
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@hisgoosiegirl: Hahahahah!!! I hear you on the questions! I have people asking me when the wedding is too, if it’s just a wedding or just a reception or both, WHERE is the wedding…LOL WTF! We sent save the dates, invites, FB events, and have a wedding website. You’re seriously going to text me asking WHEN IS MY WEDDING? Crazy people.

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