- 5 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
I have already had several issues with my darling Maid/Matron of Honor so far, but today really takes the cake. My shower is supposed to be April 14th and SHE HAS NOT EVEN ORDERED MY INVITATIONS YET. She insisted on doing this herself even though I said I would do it. Then she had the audacity to tell my mother it was my fault bc I never told her here I was registered (simply not true). My mother is pissed. I’m pissed. I honestly want to ask her not to be in my wedding any more. She is poisoning it for me. Everything has been a battle. I can’t take it any more and I don’t know what to do.
So we have to move the shower back two weeks. Not that huge of a deal I guess, it’s just the principle of it. She doesn’t care, clearly. Either that or she is so jealous that she is purposefully trying to sabotage everything (that’s what my mother thinks, I think she just doesn’t really care). She is very career driven and has expressed nothing but disdain for my decisions to settle down and become a step mother and eventually have my own children. We have different goals and different life views, so why would she be jealous? Our friendship has been a mainstay in my life for the past 15 years but we have steadily grown apart over the past five years. I guess I didn’t realize just how broken it was until now. She is truly showing her true colors. I can’t ask her not to be my Maid/Matron of Honor anymore without completely severing our friendship and I don’t want that. I just don’t want her in my wedding.