Online dating talk

posted 3 weeks ago in Relationships
Post # 46
4995 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2017

ifoundtheloml0705 :  there are only benefits to healing oneself emotionally during and freshly after a divorce before looking for emotional intimacy from another man, esp. When there’s a child involved, whether the child meets the person early on or not. It’s only when a person is fine and happy on their own that theyre fully ready to “test the waters” even. When you’re coming from a vulnerable place like OP is, so soon after the demise of her marriage, a month after EVERYTHING fell apart , she’s an easy target to get hurt. real healing needs to take place. Looking for someone , anyone, so soon after is a huge red flag to me. But that’s just my opinion; you have yours.

Post # 47
797 posts
Busy bee

ifoundtheloml0705 :  

I didn’t see anyone shaming the OP (or anyone else) for wanting to sleep with a guy on the first date.

I saw people (including myself) pointing out the benefits of not doing so, though.

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