Post # 1
If you used / are using your website for online RSVP’s, what wording did you have on your RSVP widget for indicating a plus one? Since not all of our guests can have a plus one, I’m not quite sure how to distinguish that, or say it politely on the online RSVP.
Post # 3
@hautebride: I used theknot.com’s rsvp function, and didn’t use the term +1. Once a guest entered his/her name, everyone in that party would show up. So essentially, there were no +1s at our wedding. We had a couple people write us about bringing a +1, and we said we would consider it after we got in the proper headcount. It actually worked out pretty well.