(Closed) Only 2 1/2 weeks left and Im starting to second guess EVERYTHING

posted 6 years ago in August 2012
Post # 3
9917 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

I think it will all come together.  Your wedding is your own, regardless of how “overdone” mason jars are.  You like them?  That’s enough!  I think straws is a good idea, though!  


Post # 4
3078 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@peachacid:  You can get SUPER cute straws for mason jars!  Yes, a lot of people do them, but personally I think they are super cute.  If you are having an outdoor rustic wedding they will fit in perfectly!  What I’ve noticed from all of the things that are “trendy” right now with weddings is most family members and friends haven’t actually been to weddings where it has been done!  Just because it’s seen online a lot doesn’t mean everyone knows someone who did that!

As far as your dress and everything else, i’m sure it will all come together.  I’ve had the same thoughts as you that my dress isn’t pretty enough and won’t really make me feel like a super bride.  Think about how you felt when you chose your dress and how beautiful you will feel on your wedding day!

Post # 5
2543 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I’m getting married the same day as you (eee!) and I was watching Four Weddings the other day, and one of the brides had wedding wands that were exactly like mine. And one of the brides was insulting them, saying they looked like cat toys. And that made me second guess it, but then I just kind of laughed and thought, oh yeah, they do kind of look like cat toys lol. Oh well, I like them. 

I’m sure everything you planned you planned for a reason. Don’t worry, it’ll be your day, just the way it was meant to be. 🙂

Post # 7
3697 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

People say everything is overdone, but how many weddings have you been to in the last two years?  Have you seen mason jars at 5 of them?  Probably not, and neither have your guests.  If it fits what you’re doing and what you guys are all about, people will love it. 

Also – go have another hair trial if that’s stressing you.  A girl deserves to get her hair done a couple times.

Post # 8
1309 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I can totally relate. I’m having major second thoughts about our decision to have a super intimate wedding, but I know deep down it’s the right decision. I just have to convince myself about once a day.

Post # 9
378 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Don’t stress! I promise everything will be alright! I experienced this before my wedding too. At fittings, I saw others and thought, wow, their dress is so beautiful. I started doubting some of my decor choices. I was happy with my hair trial at first, but looking back at the pics, I thought I didn’t look like a bride. Well, I had my wedding. My dress was perfect for me, my decor was everything I ever imagined, and my hair was beautiful! It’s just nerves. Relax, and remember that this is your wedding day. You’re getting married, and everyone is there to celebrate that. Nothing else really matters!

Post # 11
1141 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

The only people that know how in the mason jars are are brides. Guests usually haven’t seen them used this way so don’t worry. Another thing to keep in mind is that your guests don’t know all you have in mind so if some things are changed or dropped they never know.

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