(Closed) Only 5 RSVP’s back so far and…

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
2161 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I’m glad you looked at the post mark, it will probably be the process of elimination now.   It’s fun when they all start coming in!

Post # 4
124 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I would agree- If you’re willing wait to see, and I bet the process of elimination will help.  If you are close enough with who you think it is, why not just call and say, gee, we got an RSVP that we’re thinking was yours, but has no name.  Chances are, people would remember writing their name, so they might say, “oh, yeah, whoops! we never did that part” or something. The sooner you call, the better your chances are, because you can say, ‘we just got it’

Post # 6
44 posts
  • Wedding: April 2012

Do people not put their return addresses on the RSVP envelopes? Seems like that would help avoid all of this! Glad you have an idea who it is, though.

Post # 8
3364 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

I felt SO bad being a 2011 Bride msyelf and having sent back my friends RSVP card for her wedding without our names, just our meal selections! Luckily she knew it was me!!! UGH!

Post # 9
49 posts
  • Wedding: September 2011

@iheartnerds: Just wanting to know when you sent your invites?  When did you ask for your rsvp card to be returned!  The reason I am asking, I just sent mine out last Friday for our September 24th wedding and I have gotten 4 back!  I was kinda hoping people would send them back once they got them!  Im like a kid at christmas waiting for the mail man to get here! LOL

Post # 11
5890 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

i really dont get how this happens so often!  there’s a line for your name!! how do people think this works?

Post # 12
6351 posts
Bee Keeper

Oh man! I knew I forgot something when I mailed your card in!

Post # 13
5984 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 1999

@iheartnerds:  I’m sure it will all work out and hopefully, your markers will do the trick on the others. 

My suggestion to all brides-to-bee: Put a code (# or letter) on the back of all RSVP cards and make a template with corresponding names. 

Post # 14
685 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Many people in our group don’t include the return address when they mail back the RSVP. Good thing we put their name on the RSVP card so we know who it’s from. 

Off topic, but my Fiance once mail a contract to the vendor, however he flipped the address because he wasn’t paying attention where the address is supposed to go. So the mail went right back to us instead to to vendor. 

I think people these days don’t use mail often and forgot what they need to do when they mail anything out.

Post # 15
4419 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

@iheartnerds:  I hate to admit this, but I had to look up what color switcher markers are! 

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