(Closed) Only for waiting bees!

posted 4 months ago in Waiting
Post # 2
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

surprisedlaughing

You are hysterical!

Post # 3
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Buzzing bee

Flounce posts are against TOS.

Also you’re making it way too obvious you’re trolling. The best T posts are filled with nuance and the stories are drawn out with plot twists in the updates. You put it all out there too quickly. 

I must say I’m not impressed 

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

This may the best thread I’ve post in a long time!

  • This reply was modified 3 months, 3 weeks ago by Goirishgrl.
Post # 5
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Sugar bee

Ah, yes–the jealous and bitter comment.  How original!wink

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2020

So relieved you waited it out! You got rewarded by getting a ring on your youthful, fit hand! ::Clutches at pearls with old, out of shape hand 

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper

Have a wonderful marriage.  And yes I’m old, with wrinkled paws. But severely out of shape? I’m 118 lbs and look pretty good.

 

 

 

Post # 8
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Honey Beekeeper

LOL to this post. 

In your younger 20s and not financially independent, still in school, or not yet established or secure is one thing. But five years just “because” and no indication of a commitment is another.

Leaving is good advice in that case IMO, but not because there’s no chance that a proposal will ever happen. Aside from the risk of wasting years, my concern would be that a heel dragging, indecisive man who does not know his own mind and is unable to communicate is likely to have other equally undesirable traits or these same traits in other circumstances. 

My advice is to date a man who makes it obvious that he is just as excited and anxious for a future with you as you are with him. 

Post # 9
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Sugar bee

This was hilarious!! Thanks for the laugh on an otherwise boring Friday night, OP!

Post # 10
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781 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2020

Oh, man. I really needed that laugh. 

Post # 11
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750 posts
Busy bee

Bye bitch, don’t let the door hit you in the ass. Your husband has my sympathies. 

Post # 13
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Busy bee

So your husband dragged the proposal on for another year before you finally forced it out of him. Well done, congrats and thanks for the update. 

By The Way, fellow jealous, bitter old bags, my wrinkly old hand is in my profile pic if anyone wants to check out my gnarled elederly fingers. 

Post # 14
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220 posts
Helper bee

If someone asks for advice, you should respect the wisdom and experience that accompanies the odd wrinkle. Someone’s age or physical stats doesn’t dictate the worthiness of their voice.. Someone being old or out of shape doesn’t mean that the people they paired up with are people they settled on. I am neither of those things but I wouldn’t blow off the opinion of anyone else based on something so shallow.

To be fair, most of the advice I’ve seen on those posts relates to partners who say something will happen by X time and then, continuously, for many years make excuses as to why it’s not happening. Sometimes it’s really obvious when someone is just being strung along.

Anyway, congratulations on your marriage 

  • This reply was modified 3 months, 3 weeks ago by Waytooexcited.
Post # 15
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Busy bee

So you came here for advice, which implies you were concerned about when your now husband would propose. You didn’t like the advice stuck it out and it worked out for you, so now you think that will work in lots of situations, talk about youth and inexperience. 

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