Post # 16
You seem to have something against older people and old lady hands. Trust me, you yourself will be there one day (if you’re lucky enough to live that long). Those traits don’t diminish the worth of a person, and they don’t diminish the person’s ability to give valuable advice. Also, not all older people are bitter, which is another thing that you apparently believe is a fact. It isn’t.
Have a nice day!
Post # 17
Well, I don’t have many wrinkles as of yet, but the one thing that makes me feel old in my mid 30s is 20-somethings like the OP.
I don’t get the attitude. You’re here telling us your wait was worth it? Well, that’s entirely subjective. I would never want to marry a man I had to make a post about on a wedding board because he was dragging his feet. You were ready to be engaged, he was not. You posted here because you were not able to communicate with him effectively enough to assuage your anxiety or keep from being frustrated.
New flash! Communication issues are marriage-ending. People on this board don’t advise leaving because you’ve been together too long, we advise leaving because the vast majority of the time, there are clearly other issues in the relationship that a proposal will not resolve.
I sincerely wish you the best.