(Closed) Only In Arkansas: MOH Problems

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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5822 posts
Bee Keeper

I wouldn’t even BOTHER to fill the spot!!  I would leave the spot EMPTY to show how much you support your FCIL!!

Or I would just pick someone who fits the dress.  Anyone is better than keeping her as your Maid/Matron of Honor.  (And what kind of message would that send your BM??)

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

You can "promote" a bridesmaid and not fill the spot. You don’t have to have even numbers, but I know how it can feel in small community when everyone knows what’s going on. I personally would have a hard time having a cheater stand up for me at my wedding, but you could have the former Maid/Matron of Honor drop down to bridesmaid.

If you’re already considering not having her be your Maid/Matron of Honor you should let her go. 

Good luck. 

Post # 5
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Sugar bee

It sounds like a lot of drama you don’t need.  And she’s making it difficult for you by involving this other friend who is also a Bridesmaid or Best Man.

Without knowing the whole reality of the situation, I would say it might be best to let this Maid/Matron of Honor go.  I don’t think usually it’s a good idea to get so involved in other people’s business, but this just seems like too much… yucky kharma.  I also wouldn’t stress too much about finding another person to fill in.  Just let it be as having fewer girls than guys.

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