(Closed) OOT Bride w/ Shower Questions

posted 5 years ago in Parties
Post # 2
30400 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

View original reply
shortbread654 :  I would keep the guest list  of OOT’s very small. I wouldn’t drive 7 hrs for a shower. I certainly wouldn’t fly. It would come across as gift grabby to me to invite people who have to spend more than the gift just to get to the shower- especially people who also have to travel for the wedding. A 7 hr drive also means 2 nights in a hotel.

Post # 3
336 posts
Helper bee

I personally wouldn’t invite or expect oot guests to come to an  of state shower. I personally think inviting oot guests is a little gift grabby and would limit it to maybe bridal party oot or people you really thought were going to make it (aunt that comes home once a month) 

The topic ‘OOT Bride w/ Shower Questions’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors