- 9 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
Hi, this is my very first post…
My Fiance and I are getting married at the church we attend (non-denom). He would rather have another pastor we’ve known for several years marry us, because he says he doesn’t really want our pastor to do it. I’m back and forth on it, because I don’t want it to seem rude or really unconventional, but I would like my Fiance to have some say in the wedding too. I mentioned asking our pastor’s permission first, and he got kind of an attitude and said “Why? Why does that matter?”…Yea, it’s our wedding, but it’s his church! It would be respectful..so he says “Fine, just have him do it. Whatever” Not sure what brought all this on, but it’s frustrating me how disrespectful he is sounding. :/ What are your opinions?