(Closed) Opinion on Double Wedding

posted 7 years ago in Family
  • poll: Should I do the double wedding?
    Have your own ceremony : (76 votes)
    93 %
    Sure, go for it : (6 votes)
    7 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    726 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    NO way would I do this, I dont care what you say… it is “YOUR” day, he can have it at your venue the way he would like it at somepoint after your wedding. Its fine to say NOOO thank you  🙂

    Post # 4
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    8738 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    @tinlizzleizzle: 1st, your poll only has one option, so I can’t vote.

    2nd, you are totally NOT being a bridezilla saying you want your own wedding.

    I’d just tell your Future Mother-In-Law that you’d have no problem with FI’s brother having his wedding at the same venue, but seeing as you are already only 5 months out and have done so much of the planning already that you’d rather just have that day be your wedding.

    Wanting your own wedding day is not bratty.

    Post # 5
    Member
    1501 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    At this point in your planning, I’d say no. Sounds like an easy way out of all the work for them. And you each need your own special day.

    Post # 6
    Member
    2410 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    I would say no. The situation just has red flags all over it and at such short notice could so easily devolve into a mess.

    Post # 7
    Member
    5886 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2010

    Seriously?!? After you’ve done all the work, they want to slip in and have their wedding too? I mean it would be one thing if you were still a year out and were in the 1st stages of planning (which I still would be leary of), but now?!?

    Just say NO!

    Post # 10
    Member
    5985 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2010

    DONT DO IT!!!!!!!!

    Post # 11
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    8738 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    @tinlizzleizzle: Maybe you could offer to send them all the vendors, etc you used for your wedding and let them know you have no problem with them using the same people for theirs if they want.

    That way you show you want to help them with their day, but you still get your day!

    Post # 12
    Member
    500 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Hmm, it depends I think.  I don’t know of any particular person that I know of that I would want to share that day with – but I could see the cost related benefits to it – if you all are going to split costs right down the middle. 

    Post # 15
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    3375 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    NO! I’d be kind of mad as a guest too. I only get to come to one party and have to give two BIG gifts. But I doubt guests are going to give two gifts. They’re probably just going to split the gift they would have given you in half and give you each half.

    I just don’t know how it would even work out? Two first dances? Two cakes? What if they don’t like your colors?

    eek I’d be wary of this

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