(Closed) Opinions?

posted 8 years ago in Proposals
Post # 3
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8353 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

I think that he is feeling pressured and even though you say nothing will be a surprise, he might feel less pressure, if you let him pick the time and place for the engagement, instead of having everything all planned out. I think you should give him some space to think about how he wants to propose, and then it will eventually happen.

Post # 5
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8353 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

I know it is difficult, but maybe putting the ring out of sight will help you both. And maybe if he is given the okay to plan something somewhere else, he would relax. Also, if he really wants to do it at this specific location, why not suggest that he talk to your parents and have them get together with him, without you knowing, to set it up.

Post # 6
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5966 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

He’s probably nervous.  Because it doesn’t sound like he’s not committed to you I’d give him time and just try to be patient.  How long have the two of you been together?

Hang in there sweetie!  It’ll come and when it does I”m sure it’ll be worth the wait to know that he feels completely at ease and sure of himself.

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