(Closed) Opinions are like…

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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1934 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Oy. People are so rude sometimes. I hate that people complain about other people’s posts on FB that are, essentially, “status updates”. It’s pretty much exactly what FB is for, right?!? Forget the haters. One of our groomsmen literally told me to my FACE that I was too good for my Fiance and he doesn’t deserve me (and he WASNT joking). People’s opinions are…..often useless.  

Congrats on another thing checked off the list!  It’s exciting, isn’t it?!? I’ll be glad when it’s all checked off and PAID for!! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 4
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351 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

This is totally off the mark right here but that’s just as absurd as saying “well if you’d just kill yourself you’d never have to worry about doing anything ever again!” Like I feel it’s THAT absurd because you weren’t even complaining or anything, just like oh, one last thing, lots left to do!

But then again, you never know, some people are just bold by nature and if you’re not close to him maybe you didn’t catch this personality trait, and perhaps on his end he’s seeing lots of updates from OTHER people, and it’s a wedding overload of info for HIM. But still a weird thing to say, period. It’s like well gee, thanks for your support!

Post # 7
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1363 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

This guy must be single ๐Ÿ˜‰ Facebook has become such a pain in the rear. Seriously. I remember when I posted wedding updates and got NO “likes” or “comments” and it bothered my husband and I. Silly, but true. Vent away!

Post # 8
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4824 posts
Honey bee

I read that comment as a joke, not serious.

If it had read “Well, if you’d just elope, then you wouldn’t have to worry about it. :)” would you have interpretted it differently?

Of course you know this person in real life so his personality may be the key to the real meaning.

Post # 10
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1363 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

We all want to be validated. It’s normal.

And that’s why they invented emoticons. (Did I spell that right?). If I think my text will be taken the wrong way, I definitely include a smiley or wink, like I did above. “He must be single ;)” Meaning, he’s not planning a wedding, is he? If I wrote, “He must be single”. It would be more like bashing him for being iinsensitive and no one must want him. ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 12
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726 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@cazian: Like, their dream is to join a commune with no modern day conveniences.  Also, he and his wife dated for 2 months before they got married (basically an elopement…), and they had 2 children immediately after

Wow… 

Post # 13
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4753 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I think it was a joke…

On the same token don’t you think you should have taken your own advice?

Post # 14
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3135 posts
Sugar bee

+ 1 for thinking it was a joke maybe?  I would have replied in some saucy manner.

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