(Closed) opinions on getting pregnant!

posted 9 years ago in Babies
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

@rachelmarie220: Who cares what other people think. It’s not about what they are comfortable with, it’s about what you two are comfortable with.

Post # 4
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Screw everyone else, its your life. You will regret it if you listen to anyone but yourself. Its about what you want in 2, 5, and 50 years. How you want your life to be, not how they want your life to be. You can’t please everyone!

Post # 5
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

@rachelmarie220: only you can know what is right for you – but dont let other people (especially negative people) influence what you and your husband ultimately want. I feel for you there, my parents are getting older everyday, and while i am lucky they are healthy i always think about the time they will get with my future children, most of my grandparents  passed before i was able to build a relationship with them and having grandparents is something i really want my children to expereince.

it really bugs me that your friends say ” dont you want to make sure this marriage will last too.” that is just a kick in the face and rude.

you guys seem to be in the right place, and so in love and ready to start a famly together, dont let other people hold you back.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

@rachelmarie220:  You situation sounds just like mine.  I divorced my ex after 3.5 years of marriage, and met my now husband while I was going through that process.  We were married after a year and a half and now we are pregnant with our honeymoon baby. 

I know it’s extremely difficult to “just not listen” to people when they pass judgement.  But try not to let it get to you.  You have your best friend as your husband and the relationship you have always dreamed of.  If you two feel this is the right time for it, go for it!  (Give you friends 9 months to really understand that you and your husband will last forever!)

Post # 7
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

You have to make the best decision for the two of you. If you are ready then GO FOR IT!

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@rachelmarie220:Agreed. WHo cares what other people think. I have still a chunk of “friends” who think I threw my life away to get married. Then they think I’m throwing away (even more? LOL makes no sense) because we want to have kids.

People will think what they think, but you only get to live one life–yours.

Do what works for you and your husband. And learn to deal with the others.

Post # 9
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

If you and hubby are on the same page thats all that matters. There is never a perfect time to have children but its up to both of you(and only both of you) to decide what time is best. Other people are always going to have opinions and you change that. Its not like you have been dating for 6 months and are planning to have a baby. You took the time to get to know one another, you got married(which is a huge plunge) and now you are ready to take the next step. Go for it and disregard all the negativity.

 

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

if you want them go for it.  At the end of the day it’s you and your hubbs decision, not theirs.

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