(Closed) Opinions Please,,,,

posted 12 years ago in Waiting
Post # 17
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38 posts
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  • Wedding: June 2010

I don’t understand the ‘if we get engaged we can’t set the date for two or three years, or more..’  He has issues with marriage, which you already know.  What if you get ‘engaged’ and in three years he still isn’t ready?  I think you need to ask yourself if you really want to be married so much that you would leave if he refused to do it or you really love you life with him so much that you would stay even if he wasn’t going to marry you ever.If everything else is good, maybe that is enough.  Good luck!

 

Post # 18
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38 posts
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  • Wedding: June 2010

I wanted to add, maybe he, or both of you,  should see a counselor who could help him get over his past bad experience.  If years are going by and he has the same issue, it’s not resolving, and he is serious about wanting to get past it, outside help is a good choice to help his put things in perspective,  

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