(Closed) opinions tell her it wont happen on vacation

posted 7 years ago in Proposals
  • poll: tell her not yet or keep your mouth shut

    keep your mouth shut

    tell her it will be later than vacation

  • Post # 32
    Member
    6739 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2014

    Tell her! 

    I wasn’t a “waiting” bee because I was CERTAIN my Fiance was NO WHERE near able to afford a ring for me, but that doesn’t change my opinion..

    It seems like she knows a ring is coming soon and she will most definitely wait for it every day on that vacation, as many, many disappointed bees have before. 

    Just be honest with her – tell her it’s coming soon, but definitely not on vacation and you don’t want it to ruin the vacation if she doesn’t get it, but that you’re planning something super sweet and romantic for the proposal and you didn’t want to be cliche and propose on vacation, you just want to enjoy your last vacation as a bf/gf before you embark on your journey as an engaged, and then married couple… or something like that.

    Post # 34
    Member
    10713 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2012

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    @mr52:  aww that is really sweet, congratulations!

    Post # 35
    Member
    2480 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    From reading these boards I can honestly say that there is more stress caused by waiting for proposals than there is in planning a wedding so please, tell her you aren’t going to propose on this vacation.

    You can put a totally positive spin on it – make it clear that you have every intention of proposing and that the reasons for not being able to do so on vacation are nothing to do with lack of intention – but don’t leave her hoping, fruitlessly, for something that isn’t going to happen.

    Apart from anything else, you aren’t really going to enjoy yourself if every day ends with a certain sense of disappointed expectations are you?

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