- 10 years ago
I would not have a problem with it at all. I am really really close to all of my friends and on more than one occasion have slept over at their houses. Typically we end up watching a movie and fall asleep together. I see no harm in it what so ever. Trust is a huge part of any relationship and it’s something that my relationship is built on. When friends hang out at my house we sleep in my room and there is no drama with it.
I know that SO had a really hard time coming to terms with it, however he now accepts it. Tonight we actually had a conversation about it. I was driving back from a friend’s house who is home for spring break and we hung out for ten plus hours today. I asked SO if he had any issues with that still being an occurrence once we were married… He said that as long as I didn’t forget about him it really didn’t matter. Honestly if I wanted to sleep at a friend’s house who just so happened to be a man as most of my friends are then there is no stopping me. SO has no right to doubt me or think to tell me what I can and cannot do. I’m his and he knows that, however I am an independent woman with a social life outside of him and just because we are together in no way means that I have to give up my social life.