(Closed) Opps! Groom glances at dress!

posted 7 years ago in Dress
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

I doubt he caught on, and even if he did, he probably wasn’t looking at it closely enough to know anything.  Even if he was looking that closely, it’s going to look completely different on his bride anyway, so you’re safe.  He’s almost certainly clueless.

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Prob. but I doubt he’ll make the effort to find out what it looks like.

 

Post # 5
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Busy bee

I think to most guys, a white dress is a white dress!

Post # 6
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I am going to have to agree with the other bees! He probably wasn’t paying a bit of attention! I can see why this is bothering you but I don’t think that it is anything to stress over 🙂

Post # 6
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I am going to have to agree with the other bees! He probably wasn’t paying a bit of attention! I can see why this is bothering you but I don’t think that it is anything to stress over 🙂

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I’m sure he didn’t really put it together.  I had a similar situation at a friend’s wedding a few months ago.  I was there with my Fiance and my parent’s were there as well.  During dinner my mom leaned over the table and said “Her dress is really similar to yours,”.  I gave her a look of pure fear and just looked at her and shook my head, trying to get her to realize she was saying it right in front of my Fiance.  I guess she took this to mean that I didn’t agree with her, so she then said “It is, it’s tight on top and then has the ruffles on the bottom.”  I was soooo upset!  I finally flat out told her to stop talking because my Fiance didn’t know at all what it looked like.  Then it hit her what she had done.  I tried my best but started crying a little because I was so upset.  My Fiance never said anything, so I think he was trying to pretend like he didn’t hear, but he was sitting right next to me so I’m sure he did.

That was in April so I’m hoping that by now he has forgotten what her dress looked like and what my mom said.  He has a pretty bad memory so I’ve found comfort in thinking that’s the case.

Post # 8
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Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I took my Fiance to pic out my dress with me. I did not realize it was taboo to let the fiance see the dress. We always make decisious together and I didn’t think a thing of it. I think it will make a difference even if he did see it when he sees it on you because guys do not usually connect the dots till they see the whole picture.

Post # 9
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Sugar Beekeeper

Men as a whole aren’t as observant as you give them credit, especially when it comes to fashion. I doubt he will remember the photo or the conversation in a week.

Sealed

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Men only have a photographic mind for what’s under the clothes haha- yeah I agree with everyone- you’re safe and he won’t ever catch on to something like that.

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Yeah I agree with PP, don’t stress

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