- 7 years ago
- Wedding: August 2013
I just wanted to share. Last Saturday when my boyfriend and I went to dinner my back really hurt so I was cranky and not interested in talking about anything but getting married. And I guess because we were drinking he said ‘within the year.’ I’m not sure if he means it because he still won’t say ‘Married,’ only ‘The M-word’! Nonetheless his attitude has really changed since I first brought it up …over 1 year ago! (I don’t think I am a patient person, but apparently I am.). When I asked if he meant a 12-month year or 1 year from today, he said he didn’t want to answer because he already gave me more information than he meant to.
This week has been extremely stressful with neither of us exercising or getting enough sleep. We try to take care of ourselves but work has been demanding and we also had projects at home with a deadline. Tonight he was being obnoxious and I basically shut down & went straight to bed to rest. After I got over it I was thinking, so what if he hasn’t proposed, since I have less than a year to wait. With the way time flies by, it will be here before I know it. The only thing now is that I plan to remind him if 9 months have gone by and nothing has happened, because I know a year will pass quickly for him as well.
Sometimes we definitely get annoyed at each other, but nobody is perfect. He’s not perfect but we both have room to grow.