- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2012
My fiance and I are working on deciding the lil members of our wedding party. We have picked a flower girl, but not asked her mom yet because we are having a ring bearer dilemma. FH has 3 male cousins who are within 6 months age wise. He wants to pick his “favorite” as ring bearer. I am against this as I feel like it’s rude to the parents and though the kids are probably too young to realize now, later down the road I think the other two may be slighted. I can’t really imagine having 3 ring bearers (maybe 2, hey there are 2 rings!) so I was trying to think of other roles they could possibly serve. I went to a wedding once were there were young boys as “train bearers” but my dress doesn’t really lend itself to this role. Any ideas?