(Closed) Oral on Uncircumsized … Would you? Do you?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Would you give oral if he is Uncircumsized?
    Yes : (545 votes)
    76 %
    No : (173 votes)
    24 %
  • Post # 47
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    Worker bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    I just came here to say that I had NO clue we discussed things like this on this forum.

    I am pleased.

    Post # 48
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    My fi isnt circumsized…. Loose skin? Nothings loose…. Am i missing something? Lol i dnt rly have experiense with circunsized…. My ex was my only other sex partner and he wasnt either. Lol unless both their parents lied to them…which doesnt make any sense. I like his penis. Lmao! So i think i prefer them uncircumsized. The way god meant them to be. Lol

    Post # 49
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Sorry, but if your man was on the internet talking about how he can’t be intimate with you because of your weight or your breasts were too small, this thread would have taken a violent turn against the guy.  I don’t see a difference here… you love him except for something physical about him.  If you’re not physically attracted to him, your future marriage simply won’t be successful in the long run.  You’ll withhold sexual contact, and he’ll end up resentful, and you can guess where that will lead.

    I don’t understand the double standard from some of the PPs.  Why is it unacceptable for a guy to dislike and find something unattractive about a woman, but it’s okay for OP to find it repulsive to be intimate with her man over something in his appearance?

    You can discuss with him about getting a circumcision, but realize that’s like him discussing with you about getting a breast augmentation so he can be more sexually attracted to you.

    Post # 50
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    My Fiance also is not circumsized and is fine, i just think it looks the same as the circumsize one when is erect…. a lot of people also don’t want to be with someone who is circumsized because is just out there without the foreskin so is just outhere lose and rubbing against their under wear which to me is nasty, high risk of infection and think about it it is always just outhere , when they pee, when they have sex and then put their underwear  on their circumsized nasty penis is just out there smelly and rubbing against fabric ….who ever is saying that they broke up with someone just because they knew that they were uncircumsized is crazy, it feels the same once a penis is erect there is no loose skin so what are you talking about….

    Post # 51
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2012

    @Ediacara:  LOL!!!!!!

    Sorry to be a thread jacker- but this post just TICKLED me!

    Post # 52
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2015

    At first I didn’t like that my SO was uncircumcised and asked him to get cut after we got married. But now, after living with him and it for over a year, I kinda like it. I love moving the skin up and down when I give him a HJ, and BJs aren’t bad as long as he’s fully erect. I don’t even want him to get circumcised anymore, haha. But honestly, if it bothers you that much you need to have a serious heart to heart with him and yourself on if you can live with him being the way he is. If you can’t then you need to end the relationship. No one needs to be with someone who feels their body is gross and makes their partner want to gag.

    Post # 53
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I’m jewish so I’ve only seen circumsized but I just wanted to warn you ladies please DO NOT GOOGLE UNCIRCUMSIZED PENIS. I just did and THAT was quite an experience… (the one visual of the uncircumsized penis was a relief compared to what else came up!!), actually maybe you should google it!

     

    Post # 54
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    @allergicbee Sorry, but to me and plenty of other ladies uncircumsized is what is ‘normal’ (they’re born like that, after all) and it’s not a particularly shocking sight. On the contrary, I think they’re really attractive (and fun, don’t forget the fun part!). This is just another example of only being comfortable with what you’re used to. (and I did the google search just to check whether anything particularly hilarious came up, but mostly it was just normal looking penii)

     

    Post # 55
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    @beezzzkneez:  hmmmm, maybe you should reread my post? I don’t know what google search you did, but if you do a google search and look through the images that come up you will see quite a few old hairy men sittin around and touching themselves or jerking off- my point was that the actual photos that showed what I wanted to see was were a “relief” compared to those. omg this is such a stupid back and forth LOL

    Post # 56
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    7605 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    I’m pretty sure 95% of the “no”s are from the girls who have only ever been with circumsized guys/just one guy.  Just saying.

    Post # 57
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    Buzzing Beekeeper

    @pinkgreenandyellow:  What she said.

    As a women with one breast (partial masectomy after we met) I would be utterly horrified to find out my H was on the internet saying something along the lines of he can’t have sex/enjoy sex anymore because of the way my breasts look/feel. I would hope that he would love me for who I am and not for my physical appearance. I know it was tough for my H after it happened (especially since he is a breast man) and he has respeted my decision to chicken fillet it rather than implant. If he told me that I needed to get an implant (much like OP asking her partner to get circ’d) well I would be very upset and it would make me feel like there was something wrong with the way I am.

     I guess at least I know that my H loves me for me (even hairless after chemo) so I guess my question to the OP is can your partner say the same thing?

    Post # 58
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    @j_jaye:  Wow, that’s a very powerful story!!  It’s awesome to know that there is truly unconditional love in the face of such scary, serious circumstances.  I hope you are as healthy as possible now, and congrats on finding such a genuine, true love!

    Post # 59
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    9026 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    @MadameTussaud:  Thanks Tiffybear. unfortunately my cancer came back late last year and I have only just finished chemo. I am truely lucky and I know it- both in being a suvivor and having a great H 🙂

    Post # 60
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    @allergicbee I think my google is broken because I got quite ‘normal’ pics BUT there were a couple of hilarious photos of naked molerats….. Hence why I thought you were commenting on photos of the ‘general anatomy’ of uncircumsized penises.

    …. It is really hard to discuss this topic without sounding really really strange! LOL

    Post # 61
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    If you really love him, you should learn to love every part of his body. An uncircumcised penis is perfectly natural.

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