(Closed) Oral Sex

posted 10 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Oral Sex: Spit? or Swallow?
    Spit : (65 votes)
    17 %
    Swallow : (170 votes)
    44 %
    Neither (finish by hand) : (130 votes)
    34 %
    I hate Oral Sex so I don't give it!! : (20 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 32
    80 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    it feels like you’re having warm melted ice cream down your throat–definitely NOT sexy. i prefer to finish off by hand, thank you very much.

    Post # 33
    169 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    I usually swallow, but the boy was being an ass the other day so I spit the whole load in his belly button. He was soooooo pissed, it was awesome. I’m so glad I have someone to tell that too!!! LOL

    Post # 34
    169 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    to* UGH sticky keyboard.

    Post # 35
    397 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    hahaha I’m with honeybear, I hate that it’s warm. 

    Post # 36
    347 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2019

    Ew…The thought of it (the spermy part, not the actual act of oral) makes me feel icky…  We just use oral as the opening act for the main event.  It doesn’t get to be the star of the show, and I’m glad it works that way for us 🙂

    Post # 37
    2007 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2009

    Ha ha ha!  I’m with VirginiaMarie as a “special occasion” swallower otherwise it’s by hand or it was just preliminary.  One thing I’ve noticed is that the texture seems to change the second it hits air.  It goes down MUCH easier if it never gets that contact otherwise, ugh.  I have a hard time getting it down.  

    Post # 38
    5151 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2010




    I agree with you all! Swallowing makes me taste it LESS and looks a bit sexier too I guess 😉 haha

    @Mrbee…I agree that changing the title helps 

    Post # 39
    562 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Before Fiance I would swallow….but it would make my stomach not too happy the next day (or maybe I just thought it did!)  With Fiance now, he doesn’t let me let him finish in my mouth so he stops me before he gets to that point and then we have sex.  Lol…I hope no one I know in real life sees this!

    Post # 40
    1335 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    Such a personal topic…I can’t believe I’m answering, but Mr. Bee is right, the hive is a safe place 🙂

    I’m a swallower and have never done anything differently (although I’ve only been with my FI).  Going deep is the best because you don’t even taste it. And I know he loves it, so I don’t mind at all since we’re in the moment.  Though the thought of swallowing sperm can be kind of off-putting sometimes when you think about it, so I just try not to lol.

    Post # 41
    5886 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I’m all for using oral as the intro fun to lead up to the main event.

    Post # 43
    1147 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: January 2011

    @what2bee Noice!

    I swallow usually. If my stomach isn’t feeling great then I’ll finish by hand. The texture and/or taste have never bothered me, but spitting always seemed rather awkward.

    Post # 44
    323 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Ugh!  He wont ever finish with oral…I could be there for hours and hours…He says it feels good and its not me, appearantly he likes it but has never been crazy about it and was never able to finish with oral.  He claims hes had many arguments about it with his ex and she used to get angry and keep trying  (failure was not an option, but he claims she never succeeded). 

    Anyhow, if it had to be spit or swallow I would spit.  Besides the texture I hate that its warm. Soo gross.  If I had the option of him finishing anywhere else Id take that.

    @what2bee GOOD FOR YOU!!!

    Post # 45
    235 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I used to be a spitter, but for some reason after we got pregnant I can’t stand the sight/smell/taste/texture of it! Nowadays he’s lucky if I’ll hand-finish, because even that results in me gagging and running to the bathroom.

    Post # 46
    1991 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    Ummm…basically spitting in the nearest sink immediately followed by a quick wash out with water and mouthwash.

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