(Closed) Oral Sx (tmi?)

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: How often does your SO/FI/DH perform oral sex on you?
    Daily : (1 votes)
    1 %
    Every time we have sex : (39 votes)
    27 %
    Weekly : (34 votes)
    23 %
    Monthly : (19 votes)
    13 %
    Occasionally : (33 votes)
    22 %
    Never : (21 votes)
    14 %
  • Post # 3
    4038 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    It’s a standard part of our foreplay, so pretty much every time we have sex. It gets him going to do it, and it gets me going to have it done, so win/win. 

    Post # 4
    1370 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Never – I don’t like him going down on me. Like you, it weirds me out and I’m usually thinking too much to enjoy it.

    Post # 5
    5654 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2011

    @Mrs Sarah McK: <– same here! Darling Husband loves it, even when I feel self-consious about it… like now being 7 mths preggers.

    Post # 6
    915 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    4 years ago it was daily, but now I dont know, it isn’t every time we have sex but often enough that I dont need to complain. He def does it more then I do ๐Ÿ™‚

    And I love it, and have never felt self conscious.. Just enjoy it, he wouldn’t do it if he didn’t like it. And from many conversations with many girlfriends I have come to believe that if you don’t enjoy it he is not doing it right. There are many articles online that are very helpful in this area.

    Post # 7
    688 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    lets just say I like it and he does it cuz he loves me

    Post # 8
    4360 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2018

    I always go down on him, like every time we have sex!  He goes down on me once in a while and I LOVE it when he does.  He should do it more often.

    Post # 9
    2892 posts
    Sugar bee

    Not sure how often it is. I know it’s at least once a month but it could be more often. I think it happens frequently enough. Not a standard part of things but it’s thrown in here and there to keep things exciting. I like it. ๐Ÿ™‚ For a while I was self conscious but it’s happened enough that I don’t care so much anymore. Figured if it repulsed him he would have stopped a long time ago. ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 10
    384 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: January 2017

    I think we have a unspoken running compatition as to who can do it less…. I think I’m winning….yah! ๐Ÿ™

    Post # 11
    7777 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    I’m actually in the never camp too. It just kind of weirds me out and makes me too uncomfortable to enjoy it.

    Post # 12
    11271 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    it’s a big part of our foreplay.  we both enjoy it.

    Post # 13
    13096 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    @Mrs Sarah McK: We’re pretty much the same.  It is a pretty standard part of our foreplay (unless it is “that time” of the month) so it is pretty much an “every time we have sex” sort of thing.

    Post # 14
    1519 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    Love it love it LOVE IT, it’s my favorite, earth shattering Big O!! ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 15
    6998 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2011

    I used to be really self-concious about it but not anymore. usually the only time i shy away from it now is the first few days of my period. He def goes down on me wayyyy more than i do for him.

    Post # 16
    9482 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Once in awhile.  I wish it was more often sometimes.  He enjoys it as much as I do, but I guess because I’m such a horn dog and immediately jump his bones – he doesn’t really think about it.  I go down on him almost every single time/several times a day.

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