Post # 1
How often does your SO/FI/DH perform oral sex on you?
Do you wish it was more?
Do you enjoy it?
Darling Husband throws it in every now and then- i’m not the biggest fan though, I am self concious and worried that he thinks its gross! (he assures me he doesnt think its gross but I do!)
Post # 3
It’s a standard part of our foreplay, so pretty much every time we have sex. It gets him going to do it, and it gets me going to have it done, so win/win.
Post # 4
Never – I don’t like him going down on me. Like you, it weirds me out and I’m usually thinking too much to enjoy it.
Post # 5
@Mrs Sarah McK: <– same here! Darling Husband loves it, even when I feel self-consious about it… like now being 7 mths preggers.
Post # 6
4 years ago it was daily, but now I dont know, it isn’t every time we have sex but often enough that I dont need to complain. He def does it more then I do 🙂
And I love it, and have never felt self conscious.. Just enjoy it, he wouldn’t do it if he didn’t like it. And from many conversations with many girlfriends I have come to believe that if you don’t enjoy it he is not doing it right. There are many articles online that are very helpful in this area.
Post # 7
lets just say I like it and he does it cuz he loves me
Post # 8
I always go down on him, like every time we have sex! He goes down on me once in a while and I LOVE it when he does. He should do it more often.
Post # 9
Not sure how often it is. I know it’s at least once a month but it could be more often. I think it happens frequently enough. Not a standard part of things but it’s thrown in here and there to keep things exciting. I like it. 🙂 For a while I was self conscious but it’s happened enough that I don’t care so much anymore. Figured if it repulsed him he would have stopped a long time ago. 🙂
Post # 10
I think we have a unspoken running compatition as to who can do it less…. I think I’m winning….yah! 🙁
Post # 11
I’m actually in the never camp too. It just kind of weirds me out and makes me too uncomfortable to enjoy it.
Post # 12
it’s a big part of our foreplay. we both enjoy it.
Post # 13
@Mrs Sarah McK: We’re pretty much the same. It is a pretty standard part of our foreplay (unless it is “that time” of the month) so it is pretty much an “every time we have sex” sort of thing.
Post # 14
Love it love it LOVE IT, it’s my favorite, earth shattering Big O!! 🙂
Post # 15
I used to be really self-concious about it but not anymore. usually the only time i shy away from it now is the first few days of my period. He def goes down on me wayyyy more than i do for him.
Post # 16
Once in awhile. I wish it was more often sometimes. He enjoys it as much as I do, but I guess because I’m such a horn dog and immediately jump his bones – he doesn’t really think about it. I go down on him almost every single time/several times a day.