(Closed) Orgasm on the first try?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: When was your first orgasm?
    first guy, first try : (9 votes)
    9 %
    first guy, but not the first try : (31 votes)
    32 %
    it had been a while before I had one : (45 votes)
    47 %
    what's an orgasm? : (11 votes)
    11 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    1523 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Um, this is embarrassing, but the option of “orgasm without a guy” is not an option here, lol I knew what an orgasm was in my teens because I took care of business myself 🙂 Guess that’s not a bad thing because I have always worked to have one during sex as well!

    Post # 4
    Hostess
    18643 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    It wasn’t my first time for sure.  First time was awkward and kind of painful.  It took my husband and I a while to get it down.

    Post # 5
    Member
    14186 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    Some of us figured this stuff out before we start hanky pankying with guys!

    Post # 6
    Member
    2006 posts
    Buzzing bee

    @ejs: I agree Wink

    Post # 7
    Hostess
    18643 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    By The Way, I did orgasm on my own before having sex.

    Post # 8
    Member
    2196 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: January 2013

    Seconding jaylii and ejs: it was a while before I got busy with a guy that I figured out how to make this work!

    Post # 9
    Member
    2392 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    Also – a lot of women (cough*me*cough) don’t often orgasm from intercourse, but have no trouble getting there with other means. Every now and then I will, and it’s great, but generally that’s not something that’s going to get me off, but other things definitely will.

    Post # 10
    Member
    2208 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Along with others, I worked this out before I guy ever came along, hehe.

    But, I didn’t have an orgasm the first time I had sex.

    Post # 11
    Member
    2459 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2010

    It took me and my first bf a few months to sort it all out, but we started young (16) 

    Post # 12
    Member
    162 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    Definitely didn’t need a guy to make it happen for the first time!

    Post # 13
    Member
    137 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I’m with Entangeled…. it is not something that happens with FH often so we have a routine that works for the both of us so be both are happy. It is not something that is exclusive to me and Him, since this was the way things were long before he entered the picture, but he is the best I’ve had who understood, excepted and learned that the happy ending for me was just as important for him and works with me to get there.

    Post # 14
    Member
    5823 posts
    Bee Keeper

    Oh, I just realized after reading jaylii9’s post that I actually got my first one by myself.  So…yeah.  But I did get one with my first guy on the first try.  It kinda made sex addicting!

    Post # 15
    Member
    5498 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I didn’t figure it out myself until my Fiance..encouraged me to try it (i guess that’s how I should put it? lol). So I thought I was before until one day a few months ago it went *BAM!* haha.

    Post # 16
    Member
    2402 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I didn’t have an orgasm until I was intimate with my now-fiance! And I had been with 2 men before him.

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