MemberI didnt have one until years after my first time. I thought I had had them before, but it wasnt until I had the full enchilada that I was convinced I had been missing out.
When was your first one?
MemberUm, this is embarrassing, but the option of “orgasm without a guy” is not an option here, lol I knew what an orgasm was in my teens because I took care of business myself 🙂 Guess that’s not a bad thing because I have always worked to have one during sex as well!
HostessIt wasn’t my first time for sure. First time was awkward and kind of painful. It took my husband and I a while to get it down.
MemberSome of us figured this stuff out before we start hanky pankying with guys!
Member@ejs: I agree 
HostessBy The Way, I did orgasm on my own before having sex.
MemberSeconding jaylii and ejs: it was a while before I got busy with a guy that I figured out how to make this work!
MemberAlso – a lot of women (cough*me*cough) don’t often orgasm from intercourse, but have no trouble getting there with other means. Every now and then I will, and it’s great, but generally that’s not something that’s going to get me off, but other things definitely will.
MemberAlong with others, I worked this out before I guy ever came along, hehe.
But, I didn’t have an orgasm the first time I had sex.
MemberIt took me and my first bf a few months to sort it all out, but we started young (16)
MemberDefinitely didn’t need a guy to make it happen for the first time!
MemberI’m with Entangeled…. it is not something that happens with FH often so we have a routine that works for the both of us so be both are happy. It is not something that is exclusive to me and Him, since this was the way things were long before he entered the picture, but he is the best I’ve had who understood, excepted and learned that the happy ending for me was just as important for him and works with me to get there.
MemberOh, I just realized after reading jaylii9’s post that I actually got my first one by myself. So…yeah. But I did get one with my first guy on the first try. It kinda made sex addicting!
MemberI didn’t figure it out myself until my Fiance..encouraged me to try it (i guess that’s how I should put it? lol). So I thought I was before until one day a few months ago it went *BAM!* haha.
MemberI didn’t have an orgasm until I was intimate with my now-fiance! And I had been with 2 men before him.
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