(Closed) Orgasm on the first try?

posted 11 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: When was your first orgasm?

    first guy, first try

    first guy, but not the first try

    it had been a while before I had one

    what's an orgasm?

  • Post # 17
    1828 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2014

    Yeah…maybe tmi, but I “accidently” gave myself my first orgasm in the shower at age 12…and to be honest, I can get off manually in about 45 seconds, start to finish. It feels good, but different when I orgasm during sex, where I still have to manually “assist”, but it’s a totally different feeling (a good one!)

    Post # 18
    6593 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I am with others – I had my first LONG before any man came along!

    However, once a man did come along I knew what to do for myself and it was first guy first try!

    @Pharmy – I am the same – can get myself off really quickly – it’s more of a stress reliever for me than anything else. The ones I get during sex are a lot more intense!

    Post # 19
    724 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    The first try? No. Not even the second try. I’ve only orgasmed from oral, not from intercourse, and even that took some practice. I’ve been taught that women should always come first, so we do oral, then intercourse, and that works well for us.

    Post # 20
    5496 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2010

    Not the first guy…but definately before ANY guy. 🙂

    Post # 22
    897 posts
    Busy bee

    Still haven’t had one :p

    Post # 23
    177 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    Yeahhh, I too experienced the first one by myself. I’m glad I’m not the only one! It was definitely an ????!!! moment. It’s definitely a different feeling, doing it yourself, and I almost find it not as enjoyable.

    My first boyfriend, I only had 2, in a 2 year relationship, it was also long distance, but he was lousy, so yeah, hence why I’m not marrying him.

    My fiance and I are also kind of long distance, like an hour, and he works full time, so unfortunately our rendezvous aren’t frequent, but we make them count;)  He is very understanding if it doesn’t happen (sometimes it just doesn’t happen, it’s nothing he’s doing wrong!) and he will usually wait for me when I’m close. Even if I don’t get to “finish” I still enjoy it just as much!! 

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