Post # 17
Yeah…maybe tmi, but I “accidently” gave myself my first orgasm in the shower at age 12…and to be honest, I can get off manually in about 45 seconds, start to finish. It feels good, but different when I orgasm during sex, where I still have to manually “assist”, but it’s a totally different feeling (a good one!)
Post # 18
I am with others – I had my first LONG before any man came along!
However, once a man did come along I knew what to do for myself and it was first guy first try!
@Pharmy – I am the same – can get myself off really quickly – it’s more of a stress reliever for me than anything else. The ones I get during sex are a lot more intense!
Post # 19
The first try? No. Not even the second try. I’ve only orgasmed from oral, not from intercourse, and even that took some practice. I’ve been taught that women should always come first, so we do oral, then intercourse, and that works well for us.
Post # 20
Not the first guy…but definately before ANY guy. 🙂
Post # 21
I had my first orgasm when I was much younger with “stimulation”…my first wasnt the first to give me an orgasm…I didnt have one until a couple guys down the road…but my very first was due to some self exploration and experiementation.
Post # 23
Yeahhh, I too experienced the first one by myself. I’m glad I’m not the only one! It was definitely an ????!!! moment. It’s definitely a different feeling, doing it yourself, and I almost find it not as enjoyable.
My first boyfriend, I only had 2, in a 2 year relationship, it was also long distance, but he was lousy, so yeah, hence why I’m not marrying him.
My fiance and I are also kind of long distance, like an hour, and he works full time, so unfortunately our rendezvous aren’t frequent, but we make them count;) He is very understanding if it doesn’t happen (sometimes it just doesn’t happen, it’s nothing he’s doing wrong!) and he will usually wait for me when I’m close. Even if I don’t get to “finish” I still enjoy it just as much!!