Post # 1
I’m not struggling to orgasm but I found it interesting how orgasms differ with different men. With my first boyfriend, whom I lost my V to and dated for 5 years, I only orgasmed during sex and while on top. He was not good at foreplay and didnt know what he was doing. My current boyfriend whom I’ve been dating for three months is able to get me off my simply fingering me! I’ve also gotten off while he’s going down on me. I thought I couldn’t get off those ways and something was wrong me with me! However this time around I haven’t gotten off during intercourse but I know I will in time. Has anyone else experienced different orgasm techniques with different men???
Post # 3
@CavalierLove17: My FH is the only man that has made me orgasm, and it has nothing to do with skill. It has everything to do with feeling emotionally safe and secure for me. I never felt that way with other men.
Post # 4
Darling Husband has only been with a quarter of the people I have, but it seems he is way more experienced and the sex is fantastic. Before him, I was lucky if I could orgasm without doing it myself. The one time I did during sex (with an ex) was by doing it doggie style (sorry for the TMI). What amazes me is the different orgasms I get with Darling Husband. Some feel more internal (i.e. make my stomach hurt), some are normal, and sometimes I get multiple orgasms at once, as many as four at a time. Definitely a happy camper. 🙂