- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2014
Is SO stupid! We are currently living in different cities because he is in college and it’s his home town. And I am living in my home town, I am the type of person who really doesn’t care where I live normally, the orginal plan was that I would move to his home town, but with life and custody disagreements with my ex and all my medical thing’s that have happened within the last year I have to stay here. This has been our biggest fight we have had, and it’s an ongoing fight. I don’t know how long the court shit(pardon my french but it is really a big pile of poop!) is going to take and with my meidcal I could be looking at having surgery which I wont know until at least the middle of March. He doesn’t have a job lined up down here which is understandable, since he is still going through school… His way of thinking though is that I will move to his hometown for a couple of months( to a year) so he can work and save up money. Then we will move back here and that I can just travel the whole time. Which A. is a waste of money and B. I don’t drive so I would have to take a 5 hour bus back home every other week.
I guess this is more of a vent then anything, but I just wish that he would see it MY way, because to me it makes no sense for me to move my whole everything for a couple of months to a year just to move back. I am just so frusterated.
ETA- He is done school next month