(Closed) Our cake topper…causing uproar

posted 5 years ago in Reception
Post # 3
1226 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@ashlee1214:  That’s silly, lol. Why exactly is she upset that he is wearing the cap and jersey in the topper?

Post # 4
8041 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

I like it. I am not sure why they’re upset…. it’s cute!!

Post # 5
1014 posts
Bumble bee

I’m not from the US, so perhaps that’s the problem here, but… I don’t understand?  What is controversial about this?  How is it demeaning?

ETA: And I really love it!  It’s so adorable!  I just think that perhaps I’m missing some of the symbolism.

ETA2: Oh, is it just that’s it’s non-traditional?  Sorry, I’m reading too much into things.  How odd to be in an uproar over that.  No, it’s great, you guys made an excellent choice!

Post # 6
2957 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas

Eh just nod and smile when she brings it up…it is cute! Love the dogs ha.

Post # 7
1868 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@ashlee1214: I think its very cute and looks really well made! I love it. A lot of people go a less traditional route with cake toppers these days and weddings are all about personal touches. She will get over it.


Post # 8
1420 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Turf Valley

Does she think the “H” sign you’re making is making you look like you’re rocking out? HAHA!  I love it personally.  

Post # 9
772 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@ashlee1214:  I like that it represents you!  I think your Mom will get over it! haha

Post # 11
2299 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

It’s super cute!  I wouldn’t worry about what your mom thinks- she’ll come around.  

Post # 12
99 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2000

I think it’s a really creative topper and the doggies are adorable. She’s maybe thinking it looks a little gangster to be making that sign; sounds like a bit of a generational thing. Just explain it’s the girl equivalent to wearing the H shirt. 

Post # 13
5660 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

HUH? I think it’s cute and super fun. It’s totally “now” to do something really personal and awesome with your cake topper. She needs to calm down!

Post # 14
1328 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

I think it’s really cute!  I love touches like this in a wedding where the couple’s personallity really shines through.

This may be a good time to say “Okay Mom, that’s nice, we’ll take that into consideration.” 


Post # 15
561 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Tell her if the cake topper is the biggest issue she has to worry about, she’s a lucky lady. 🙂

I love it!

Post # 16
1231 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I luuurrrvvv this! So cute, creative, and personal. Please tell me the dogs are going to be on it, too. 

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