(Closed) Our First “Crisis”

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

your reception will be better 😉 no worries, that’s what people will talk about, how much better yours was

Post # 4
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

I understand how you feel, but, your wedding won’t be anywhere near the same.  I don’t think anyone will think anything of it that you are getting married at the same place. Just gives you more reason to make it all about you and your FI! I doubt anyone will compare weddings, because you all are very different people

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@Ms. St. Louis: Yeah, I think that would irk me a tiny bit. Then again, you did say you come from a small town, so it doesn’t seem like there are that many options in your area, is that right? So the odds of you and your ex choosing the same place were pretty high to begin with, yes?

Let it roll off your back. Though you may be in the same venue, it is only a venue. The event of the wedding itself will be very different and unique to you. Bring some sage to clear out any unwanted energy the day of your wedding. 😉

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I wouldn’t worry about it.  Like you said it’s a small town.  I’d be worried if you were both in NYC and then chose the same venue (that’d be creepy and weird)!! 

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