(Closed) Our first “No” RSVP

posted 8 years ago in Logistics
Post # 4
11325 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

oh man, that sucks!!! i would wait until you have others back and see if you can single that person out by who didn’t respond maybe??


Post # 5
1523 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

We ended mixing up a few RSVP cards when we were putting them together so I understand that frustration!

Can you look at the envelope and see where it was postmarked? That might help you narrow it down, otherwise you will probably have to wait until you can narrow it down to one person.

Good luck!

Post # 7
513 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Oh boy. Your black light idea is fantastic. Is it possible this person is actually a couple? I went through my invites and I started putting down plus ones next to a few single people and simply Mr + Mrs next to married couples. Hopefully as you get more rsvps back you can figure it out.

Post # 8
2634 posts
Sugar bee

My invites go out next week and I can’t wait until the RSVP’s start rolling in!  I marked all of them in pencil on the back so I know which number corresponds with which person.

Post # 9
4001 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Lol, happens to the best of us!  I made goofs all the time for the last couple months.  Not just wedding related mess ups- I messed up things at work, at home, wherever.  My mind just wouldn’t stop wondering! 

I was annoyed when our no rsvp’s didn’t say anything either.  Some people are less thoughful than others, they usually don’t mean any harm but a lil ‘so sorry, hope its wonderful’ would be nice.

Post # 11
962 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Do you have postcard RSVPs?  I do, and I’ve noticed very few notes from people on them (not that we left a ton of room for notes, but you know what I mean).  I was beginning to think that if I had done regular card/envelope RSVPs we would have gotten a few more notes?  Not sure…  Kind of unrelated… but my adult niece (who is in my ceremony) “facebooked” me today to say she lost her RSVP but she and her FH are obvi coming.  Grrr…  I’m scrapbooking the RSVPs…  i knew someone would likely do this… but someone in the wedding!??!  Lame.  Gotta lover her anyway!

Post # 12
990 posts
Busy bee

i think i am in love with your invisble ink system…very clever

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