(Closed) Our guest list and my estranged FFIL…

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
1982 posts
Buzzing bee

Respond back to him that while you’d like to include everyone, that unfortunately you can’t even include some of your own friends, and ask if he could pick one or two, who they would be.

If he insists, he’s kind of being pompous and shouldn’t have expected much anyways.

Post # 4
1207 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

I agree with Labor, let him know that if he would like to invite those 16 you can cover costs for 1 or 2 of them, but the rest he would need to pay for.  I can’t hardly believe someone you have almost no relationship with would think it’s appropriate to tack on 16 guests!

Post # 5
2201 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Oh man, now I don’t feel so bad about Future Mother-In-Law sending us a list of 50 people (just her friends, excluding family) – we actually have a relationship with her . . .

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