- 5 years ago
- Wedding: April 2014 - Courthouse
In October we moved into a rental home with fiances sister and brother in law. Weve split everything in half and plan on saving money this way until the lease is up. Atleast that’s what I thought…we’re not on the lease agreement so we could move any time that we want. Fiancé wants to continue living with them for another year after the lease is up and I say HELL NO. I want to start a family and have our own space. While it’s just us and our dog right now it’s a good situation. He doesn’t feel the same as I do. He thinks that splitting the costs with them and saving money rather then getting our own rental and saving money is more ideal. I cannot live with them for another year. Especially if I want a family and they have had talk about having a baby of their own. Two couples,3 dogs and 2 babies is NOT an ideal situation. It has to happen for some people which I understand, but in our situation, we could definitely get our own rental. I don’t know how to explain this to him. He gets upset every time I bring it up and defensive and insists on living with them for another year. I’m not sure what to do or how to bring it up as OK this is what we’re doing if you want to start a family with me, which he does, we talk about it all the time.