posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
5889 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

oh hun, all i can say is, thank GOD you found out now and not deep into a marriage…

Post # 4
5977 posts
Bee Keeper

Oh my goodness, I’m so sorry! I can’t even begin to know anything of what you’re feeling, but I just wanted you to know that you could vent here. I think you’re making the right choice in asking him to move out immediately. I’m so sorry this is happening to you.

Post # 5
5889 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

@2PeasinaPod: i second this on the venting.  we are here to listen!

Post # 6
181 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Stay strong, girl!  I am so sorry this has happened to you.  Don’t let this loser take advantage of you for one more second.

Post # 8
2538 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Good for you on getting him out of your life. It’s hard, but the right thing to do. As someone who’s been with tons of jerks, I promise you’ll be better off in the long run.

Post # 9
322 posts
Helper bee

Oh wow I am so sorry, what a terrible feeling. At least hopefully you are able to be really angry rather than really sad right now (Although I’m sure you are feeling both). How difficult and awful. I can’t believe he just think that everything he is doing is normal and you should just understand. I’m proud of you for being so strong and making him move out immediately! You are doing the right thing, as hard as it may be.

Post # 11
2249 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2018

good for you for getting out now! It sounds like you are a giver and he is a taker. Tere are many many better and amazing men out there!


Post # 13
8353 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

I am so sorry…

I am glad you found out now though. It would have been a shame to have not found out about until after you were married.

Just remember, you did nothing wrong and it is not you. You are a wonderful person and you took him at his word. He is the one with the problem and if someone is doing something not on the up and up, they can be very good at hiding it, but it never stays hidden.

Be proud of yourself for standing up to him and realizing that he isn’t the one. Take this time for yourself to get grounded and do things for yourself that you have been holding back on. You deserve the best and I know that one day, you will meet your prince.

Post # 14
841 posts
Busy bee

**hugs** You are such a strong woman, and I wish you the best of luck, hun 🙂

Post # 15
1331 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2016

Oh My God……

Kick his ass to the curb, definitely.  Thank God you found all this out now.  You seem like such a sweet and hard-working girl, and from your pics on another thread you’re absolutely gorgeous!  You deserve so much better, and you will find him.  I am so very sorry…..can I come over and help you stomp his ass all over the place?

P.S.  And YOU didn’t do anything wrong, YOU didn’t allow anything to happen!  HE’s the worthless scumbag who doesn’t deserve your love and pampering any longer!


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