(Closed) OUR REALTIONSHIP IS REALLY OVER.

posted 10 years ago in Relationships
Post # 32
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1893 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

For starters, kudos on the word “furiosity.”  It is a gem that I will seek to use in as many sentences as humanly possible.

On a serious note, I’m so sorry this happened.  I know what it’s like to suddenly discover that the person you thought you knew better than anyone else in this world, you really don’t know at all.  It’s horrifying.  Thank god you found out now.

((hugs))

Post # 33
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1418 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Oh my goodness!  I am so glad you decided to get out of that relationship!  SO glad.  You do NOT need someone like that in your life.  As many other ladies have said, vent away!  That’s what we are here for.  Just remember – this is not your fault!  You were mistreated and used and that is not ok.  You are so much better off without him and I am so happy you were able to find this out and get out before a marriage!  Big hugs sweetie – best of luck to you 🙂

Post # 35
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379 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Get rid of him.  What a creep.  You deserve better.  Good thing you find this out now rather than later.

Post # 37
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353 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Wow, that sucks.  Unfortunately, most guys watch porn – that is very normal.  Single, married, what have you, they watch porn.

That said, there is a line that can be crossed.  If they are watching live cam feeds or tipping girls in real time, then that is pretty much cheating.  Recorded porn is different, at least for me.  I don’t like my guy watches it, but I accept that he’s a guy and I’m ok with the fact that he closes the door sometimes to be with his computer.  We have rules in place and live chats, cams and all that is definitely off limits.  You did the right thing.  Live feed stuff is just the next step to finding a person in the real world.  It’s sexual interaction that goes both ways, thus live stuff is cheating.

Post # 38
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2738 posts
Sugar bee

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@babybritt143: Wow, this guy just sinks lower and lower. I sincerely hope he is a lot younger so he might grow out of it (although I can’t imagine a 14yr old acting this way) I am glad you found out waaaayyy before you went further with him. I am so sorry you had to go through this.

Post # 39
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1221 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I am SO sorry to read about this. I’m glad for you that you found this out way before anything more serious (marriage) took place. As a PP said, you are gorgeous & so sweet. You do not deserve anything less than a real gentleman who will treat you w/ respect. 

Post # 42
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2249 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2020

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@babybritt143: I’m glad you said your dad is a police officer. That way if he realizes how good he had it with you, he might think twice about contacting you.

From the tone of your posts, it sounds like you are already relieved to be getting rid of this guy! I hope you stick around on the Bee, even though you aren’t planning!

Post # 43
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2790 posts
Sugar bee

I am so so sorry that you are dealing with this. He sounds like a total douche and I am glad that you got out while you could. Please please please do not ever let him talk you back into his mess. He is one hot mess and always will be. We are all here to listen and you are more than welcome to vent!

Post # 44
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

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@babybritt143:You are WAY too good for this guy. I’m so sorry you had to find out what a loser he is the way you did, but thank goodness you found out now before you were married (or had children with him, yikes).

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