- 8 years ago
- Wedding: March 2010
One of my bridesmaids used to be the roommate of my Fiance several years ago. When I asked her to stand up in my wedding we weren’t extremely close but I knew as time went on our relationship would grow. Since I’ve asked her to be my bridesmaid she and I have hung out probably less than 10 times. Almost EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. she comes up with some excuse as to why we can’t do what we planned to do, or someone comes that I don’t know and then she’ll turn her back on me and talk to the other person until I warm up and start interjecting into the conversation too.
I’ve talked to her about how I feel, too. Not long after I asked her to stand up and I she kept blowing me off. I love this girl and I want to get closer. She acts like she does too but like I said, something always comes up.
For instance. Last night she texted to see if I wanted to have a girls night tonight. I’ve been really needing one so I said yes. Today she calls me at 3 to tell me that her Darling Husband invited people over from his work and she isn’t sure what is going on. She seemed really upset and said she was extremely sorry for what happened. She made it seem like she would call me right back, and after two hours I ended up asking her.
I’m just confused as to what to do sometimes. Should I ask her if she’s even interested anymore? I know a lot the time she makes it seem (and i’m sure it is) that some of the things that happen are out of her control, I just feel like I’m one of the people on the back burner. I want to be closer to her, I just don’t know how to express this to her without either freaking her out or hurting her feelings.