(Closed) Our relationship seems like it’s falling apart

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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17 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2011

@SweetRose2011: I am in a very similar situation!! I have been considering asking my bridesmaid if she even wants to be in the wedding anymore. I think it is best to talk about it,instead of holding it inside.Good Luck!

Post # 4
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3167 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

some people are just flakes and don’t realize it. they mean well but they’re just flakey! you said you want to get close to her but you’re not already – maybe that means she shouldn’t be standing beside you UNTIL you’re close enough. think of it that way and maybe try and broach it with her like that? 

Post # 5
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661 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

You’ve obviously spoken to her about it – but, I wouldn’t stress anymore than you already have.  Fact is, its your wedding day, and as much as you want to be closer to her, if she’s unwilling to make the effort, then there really isn’t much more you can do.

I know she’s your FI’s old roommate, and that would be good enough reason to keep her in the wedding.  Have you thought about having a night where you and your Fiance (and her) go out to help with the situation?

Fact is, sometimes your personality is not the same as someone elses and that is why you can’t be great friends with them.  It just happens that way. 

In the meantime, you need to be focused on staying stress free and enjoying planning the wedding of your dreams.  If the friendship is meant to be, it will.  Good luck!

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