(Closed) Our RSVPs (Share your stories and advice!)

posted 6 years ago in Paper
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

We did online, we’ve gotten about 25 of 69.  I talked to some family members and they didn’t even catch the whole rsvp online thing.  Sine we talked to those family members they went in and RSVPd.

I don’t really know about inviting more people…your wedding sounds very different than ours 🙂

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@TogetherThroughLife:  Sent 3 weeks ago, RSVP deadline is Friday.

Yeah even my mom was like “I thought I had to just say yes.”  LOL

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

I would wait until you get some No’s.. We didn’t do online rsvp’s but we did have a B list.. Basically, what I did was everytime I got a no, i’d invite that many more to attend.. So say a couple of 2 said no, I would invite a couple of 2 from the B list.. Now, some of them were SUPER late invites (as in our wedding is in less than 3 weeks and they wre just invited yesterday) but we explained to them that our max is 150 and we have huge families and we had to wait to see if they would attend. Most of these are co-workers, distant family friends and completely understood the late invite and are actually excited to attend.

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort

@TogetherThroughLife:  With your deadline so soon, I think it would be obvious to guests invited now that they were B-listed unless of course you have a separate set of invitations standing by with a later RSVP date and none of these guests are friends with and therefore likely to talk to guests on the A-list.

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