Post # 46
As long as you change your vision of your vacation, it will probably be fine. You’ll just have to look at it as “family” vacation with your FH and his family. We did this last year with my family last year, but it was planned as an anniversary celebration for my parents. We had the same room set up as you are describing. It worked well for us, but we all knew about it going into it.
In your situation, I don’t know as I would quite as excited. You and your nuclear family planned this vacation and decided that it would be ok for the MIL/FIL to come and they included the others.
You mentioned earlier that they were planning all your activities. Are they still doing that? I would think hard to decide if this is the vacation you want.
Post # 47
- Wedding: November 2020 - North Carolina
They are no longer planning activities for everone to do. Basically they are planning things among themselves and giving us all the details so that we can decide if it’s something we want to participate in. Also, there are things that we wouldn’t mind them joining us for and for those we’ll give them the optuon to tag along if they like.
Post # 48
I would agree with your husband and call it a loss. Say that’s your Christmas gift to the family you were meant to share with and they can have the whole, suite to themselves.