(Closed) Our wedding is this week!!!!

posted 7 years ago in September 2013
Post # 17
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Is anyone else getting annoying last-minute requests?!!

My cousin just asked if she could bring her infant son (my wedding is no kids, period) even though I already told her that it’s a kid-free wedding.  He’s only about 4 months and I know he wouldn’t really be a bother, but I feel bad because my FI’s coworkers wife decided to stay home with their baby who is about the same age.  I told my cousin yes because I just want to keep peace and really don’t give a shit at this point, but I’m worried someone will notice and say something.  But I honestly do not feel like recreating my whole seating chart to re-invite FI’s co-workers wife whom I’ve met twice in my life.  

Also, my neighbor who I found a babysitter for decided not to stay in a hotel room so now I am asking around to all my family to see if they can lend out one of their rooms during the wedding for the babysitter and kid.  I already bent over backward to find a sitter and make arrangements with the shuttle driver in case they needed to make an emergency trip back to the hotel. 

This stuff really isn’t a big deal, it just pisses me off that these two people are asking me to make special arrangements for them A WEEK BEFORE MY WEDDING when other people are handling their own business.  (Also, I am perfectly aware that some people might not come to the wedding because it is no kids.  I accepted those consequences when I decided to not invite kids.  I’m not even annoyed that I’m helping with child care arrangements; just annoyed that people are changing their mind the week of the wedding like I have nothing better to do).

Post # 18
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

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@Starling13:  Physically yeah….mentally no.  I have so much to do at work and so much to do at home for the wedding. I have been searching for a white dress to leave the reception in but nothing looks good.  πŸ™

Post # 19
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2014

Congrats & enjoy your day! πŸ˜€

Post # 20
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

YAY for you! Congrats!

Post # 21
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

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@jesssamesssa:  My whole philosphy has been if its “complicated and stressing me out then it is not nessesary”. Just wear your wedding dress when you leave the ceremony πŸ™‚

I am glad you are physically feeling better!!!

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@Sunnyday278:  Least you got a lot accomplished!! Don’t give up yet now that we can see the finish line!!!

Post # 22
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

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@Starling13:  I would love to! But we are going straight to the hotel a hour away and then the next morning getting on the place to California and I just dont have room to take that heavy thing. 

Post # 23
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

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@jesssamesssa:  Awe, yes. I see! Where are you guys headed to for your wedding?I would just grab something simple from the mall then. Good luck!!! Don’t put too much stress into it. Most everypne will be drunk by then and won’t remember what you switch into anyway.

I am starting to wish Fiance and I had planned a honeymoon for right after now… Oh well, I suppose it will be that much more appreciated by the time we go..

Post # 24
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I still have so much shit to do. πŸ™ Instead of my to do list getting smaller, it seems to only get bigger!

 

Post # 25
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

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@Starling13:  Our wedding is 3 hours from our house toward the beach.  I found a few dresses that were ok, but they werent my size. I am going to TJ Maxx, Ross, Kohls, and Target today.  If I cant find anything I dont know what Imma do!! No clue!

Post # 26
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

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@jesssamesssa:  I saw some cute white dresses at Belk the other day. They were also on clearance! Hope you find what you’re looking for! Also, I have a feeling we may be getting married in the same area. My maid of honor works at Mens Wearhouse and she said there’s like 3 other weddings in the same area as mine on Saturday. LOL

Post # 27
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013 - B&B

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@jesssamesssa:  I loooove TJMaxx, Ross, and Kohls! Hope you find something awesome!!

 

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@Starling13:  Auuuugggh I know! If I could just make myself start I think I could bust some work out but I am just, ugh, a mess. A few minutes ago I couldn’t decide if I felt like getting sick or throwing up haha. I feel like my head is just full of fuzz! And now that I’ve eaten I feel like my stomach is upset πŸ™ UGH.

I want a blanket, my puppy-dog, and to lay down and watch funny movies in bed. Or just go back to sleep! What is wrong with me?!?!

Post # 28
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

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@MissCountryGirl727:  Where are you getting married? My ceremony is in Morehead City at a church and my reception is in Pine Knoll Shores and the Country Club of the Crystal Coast.  I went to Belk at Crabtree yesterday but there was only one dress that I really liked and it was a size too big.  πŸ™

Post # 29
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

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@Sunnyday278:  Thanks! Those stores are all by my work except Kohls so if I dont find anything at those I will to go Kohls.  I am also going to try a cool boutique near work its called Versona.  I love that place. 

Post # 30
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

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@jesssamesssa:  Oh! My wedding is in Washington at the waterfront so not too far from there. Pine Knoll Shores is beautiful. Looks like we will have perfect weather Saturday!  I hope you find your perfect white dress! 

Post # 31
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

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@Sunnyday278:  I want a blanket, my puppy-dog, and to lay down and watch funny movies in bed. Or just go back to sleep! What is wrong with me?!?!

Um, nothing! That sounds like heaven and something I look forward to pretty much all the time!

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