(Closed) Outdoor bridal shower in August… whaat?!

posted 4 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
45658 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

If you are not supposed to know about it, don’t know about it. You are the guest of honor, not the hostess.

Post # 4
40 posts
  • Wedding: March 2014

@julies1949:  +1


Let her do her thing. The shower doesn’t reflect on you directly and you’re not supposed to even know about it. If you are really concerned, confess to your mom that you saw the invite and see if she would be willing to help/say something.

Post # 5
9956 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Agree with julies1949: (Reply # 2)

Party is being held in YOUR HONOUR… BUT IS NOT YOUR PARTY.

That said, is there someone you can put your trust in not to blow your cover… and intervene on your behalf (someone who can keep their mouth’s shut that you know)

Mom would be ideal if she is trustworthy.

“Susie, I got the Invite… and I am just wondering what arrangements you’ve made for the weather, and Guest’s Comfort ?  Shade, Seating, that sort of thing. Particularly concerned about the Elderly Guests like Gramma Joan and Aunt Edith”

Otherwise, you have to breathe in and let this one go… it may be in your Honour… BUT you are not the Hostess.



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