- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
Hi Bees….. So I love my mother dearly but she is pretty critical of everything I do! Just wonderng if any other bees out there have a mother like this and how do you deal with it?? I usually just bite my tongue but I think b/c of wedding planning and all it’s bothering me more than normal…..
My mom lives in Ga and I live in Fla she comes to visit about every 3 months or so. Everytime she comes she always says something she doesn’t like. Like on this trip it was ewwww I don’t like your hair that dark. I had my hair down and my hair is ususlly curly(natural curl) in my hair but I had it down and brushed out with no product and she said….what did you do to your hair I don’t like it. I showed her my hair trial and guess what she didn’t like it…..She also always comments on my makeup that she doesn’t like it either…..I think wedding planning has me EMOTIONAL.
I am just a girl and every once in a while it would be nice to hear my mother compliment me instead of always find something wrong. When she was here I didn’t take her to see my dress for fear that she wouldn’t like it and I couldn’t stand to hear her say anything bad about it so I didn’t take her to see me in it =(
My fear is on the WEDDING day that she isn’t gonna even say anything nice…..Is it so bad that I just want to hear my mother say nice things instead of always so negative and things she doesn’t like…..I am just praying on the wedding day she doesn’t say anything bad about my dress, hair, makeup or lord knows anything else!