(Closed) Over emotional bee who can use a hug for sure.

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

Can I ask what cultures are involved? I’ve never heard anything like this…

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@Mrsgurzakovic: saleem…and a hug to youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu…. i hope everything will work out for you

 

 

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

tell me about it…i just hope every wedding goes smoothhh including mineeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee..

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@Mrsgurzakovic I’m marrying an Arab man. He’s the most wonderful man I know. Trust me, everything is worth it! People don’t enter engagements not knowing the importance of family and culture. Your man knew this before he proposed. 

My fiance’s family… they are intense! But, I love them. I love how close they are and how much the children respect their parents. Is the wedding bigger and more expensive than I ever thought I would have in my life? Yes, and my fiance has worked the past 24 days straight because of it-not one day off! All for the wedding. Did his family tell me I should get another job where I make more money? Yes, but I can’t due to my circumstances. Meh, I still love them. 

Everything is going to be okay. Your fiance loves you and you are worth everything he is doing and more! Just keep telling yourself that. 🙂

Post # 11
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Newbee
  • Wedding: November 2012

This is not Arab tradition.. this is Arab Muslim tradition.. other Arabs of different religions (Christian, Druze)dont abide by this.

I feel really bad for you. Hopefully if you have kids they wont have to go through this. have a talk with your Fiance and let him know youre thinking of him

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Just curious, based on your screen name is your Fiance from Eastern Europe? If so, these traditions are not all that unusual, more than what’s done for weddings there though. 

Just tell him how you feel and be supportive of him. Best to both of you 🙂

Post # 14
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Helper bee

hey! well im muslim and im going through the same thing. MY fi i mean Darling Husband because we did the kitibketab already !!!! liol  He is working his butttt offff. i rarly see him and he gets about 3 hrs of sleep and it makes me feel soooooooo bad when im home sleeping and hes out there working :(… but yea my family is not the one putting pressur on him, its his family who go all out. i mean every girl dreams of her big wedding day but honestly hes my husband in islam now and i jus wish we had our own crib and maybe go to our honey moon, i dont care about a wedding right now, i just want him to rest and us enjoy eachother… is that so much to askkk?? 

 

** and d.w your fi wont leav you, he obviously loves you alot for working so dammn hard. just let him know that he could stop doing anything he doesnt want to..

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