(Closed) over-sensitive!!

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I think you’re just being super sensitive–if you’re not getting your work done, that sounds like something a boss has every right to say. And the sick comment? That’s totally something my boss would say to me! You got a lot on your mind right now!

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Those were snarky comments. 🙁

It is a pet peeve of mine, when someone knows or can tell you are sick, and instead of showing concern or empathy that *you’re* not feeling well, they hold up their hands and say, “Stay away, I don’t want to get sick!” It’s like, “Hi. Not about YOU. And don’t flatter yourself. I don’t plan on hugging, kissing, or coughing on YOU.”

Her comments also sound passive aggressive, like it bugs her that you were gone all week, and that you’ll need to be gone for your wedding.

I hope you can brush it off and roll your eyes, because her snarky comments are so much less important than your health and your upcoming wedding and the people who are going to celelbrate with you, both of which will still matter in 5 years, unlike other people’s opinions!

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

If she makes comments like that all the time, that would get on my nerves. Plus, if you are a nurse they should really be more appreciative of you. Around here, nurses are very scarce and can pretty much choose where they work. (Not in snarky environments!) Also, they obviously do not care about their patients health much if they make you work when you aren’t feeling well! Don’t put up with that crap.

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