(Closed) Over the top bachelor party. Say something or no?

posted 5 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

What is stag money?

 

Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

It’s his night with his friends. Don’t sweat it. 

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

If  people can’t afford to go then they won’t. Don’t worry about it. It’s his bachelor party and he shouldn’t be able to go on a fishing trip if he wants to.

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I think it sounds fun!  Not my thing, but if he likes being outdoorsy and fishing, I think he’ll have a great mini-vacation.  I know a lot of my guy friends would KILL for a bachelor party like that.  Plus you won’t have to stress about strippers 🙂  Think about it this way.  90% of the wedding is for us.  Our dresses cost FAR more than a tux or suit, we spend so much money on the things that they overwhelmingly don’t care about (flowers), so let him enjoy his part of things!

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

@Rubbs:  +1

 

It’s his party. Let him figure it out. Maybe he can ask around and see what the other guys think.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@oneofthesethings:  +1 WTH is stag $$?

Also, I’ve been having to reel in my Fiance over and over again. Throughout the planning process, he has wanted to do everything so over-the-top, including the bach party. I get it, he loves his friends and wants to do epic fun things with them, but it’s not always realistic for the budget and he gets that after I bring it up to him.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I would just keep quiet. If that’s what he wants to do for his bachelor party, it sounds pretty tame, and it will make him happy.

If he determines that a lot of people won;t be able to make it based on funds, he may very well change his mind anyways!

 

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Rubbs:  

@Birdee106:  

+1. if he’d love it he’d love it. if its only a few of them, its only a few of them. no biggie.

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Sounds like fun to me! $350 isn’t nearly as much as some people spend (Vegas etc) Let him deal with it, I’m sure you have a million other things to worry about. 

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I still don’t know what stag money is, but just let it go and let him do what he wants.  If his friends are anything like my H and his friends, they’re VERY frank with each other.  If someone didn’t want to go or spend the money, they’d just be like “fuck no, man.  I’m out.  Catch you later for a drink.”  LOL

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@Ali-oop:  That is exactly what my Fiance and his friends are doing! They are driving to the Mississippi river and renting one of those house boats all weekend. Fishing and drinking on a house boat on a river…sounds pretty dangerous to me! I don’t like it, but to me, it’s better than any alternative… I just let him know my concerns and I moved on.

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